Favorite Sex Tips

Oral sex seems simple enough. All you need to do is lick, suck and flick with your tongue. The same pretty much applies to women and men. When doing oral sex, a tip to making it really satisfying and memorable is t use your hands. There are many ways to use your hands to add to the effect. You can do the obvious which is for men, put your finger inside the vagina to stimulate the g-spot while you lick the clitoris. Women love this and it’s an easy route to an orgasm. This should be the preferred position for cunnilingus.

There are a few other variations you should try because even through now matter how good a certain position feels, you’ll get sick and tired and bored with it after a while. The old saying goes “show me beautiful women and I’ll show you a man who is bored of sleeping with her”. Here are a few things you can do to make oral sex better.

1.) Grab the butt
When you squeeze and hold the buttocks, you can use them like a handle. You can thrust the hips higher up and then get your tongue deep in there. Use the butt as a handle to maneuver the hips for better reach.

2.) Grab the chest.
It will ankle her write with naughtiness. This is a very naughty, porn star like pose. It looks good on film so if you’re shooting a movie, then make sure you do this. When you grab upwards, it spreads these sensations all over the body making it more of a wholesome experience.

3.) Grab the feet.
This is just the opposite as the previous tip. When you hold the feet, it’s an erogenous zone for women so she will have her senses heightened. You can maneuver the feet and spread her even wider, giving you better access to her deepest reaches of her love hole. Holding the feet is also restraining which adds a bondage like feel to your foreplay.

If you want to try kama Sutra positions but you can’t understand the complicated instructions in a book, you’re not alone. It’s a big turn off to sit there naked with your partner, on the floor, flipping through these pages, trying to understand what they are telling you to do. There is a picture but it doesn’t really explain too much most of the time.

I noticed that most kama Sutra books are more based on the writing of Kama Sutra rather then the instruction of it. If you look at the basis of the art, it’s an ancient Indian teaching so it makes sense that the books explain with words because that’s the way they are supposed to be. It’s a school, a teaching and you have to learn by reading.

I would take a kama Sutra class, but then what would that be like? A strange, uncomfortable room full of strangers sitting in very phallic positions. The the guys could get erections, and the ladies would snicker and it would be a very uncomfortable mess. Not sexy at all.

There is this very original site that has 3D images that you can rotate with a click of a button and you can really see what the position is supposed to be so that it’s very easy to replicate it. Check out the sexual positions for men here and there is also a page of the top sexual positions for women. Men and women both benefit from different positions and there is so many new sides here, so save your money and skip the sex book, just look at this site and you’ll be really impressed!

This is the magic quest for all late teenage men. Even some men in their 20’s have a hard timed finding the g-spot and many men even wonder if it exists. As a post written by a women, let me tell you that yes, the g-spot DOES exist.

The main problem and most common misconception is that the g-spot is really far inside. Men will usually shove 2 fingers up there until the hand stops them from going in any further and then they fish around and make a “come hither” motion with their fingers. This is usually followed by a fake orgasm for women because lots of ladies don’t know how to tell the guys that they’re way off.

Other truth is that the g-spot is only about 1 – 1 1/2 inches inside the vagina wall. It;’ very close to the exit of the vagina. When you insert your fingers, rub them up along the front, facing the belly button. You’ll feel a solid pubic bone and the it will curve away leading tot the cavernous vagina.

The g-spot is located before the bone bends, you’ll notice a spongy feeling spot about the size of a quarter, it’s usually round too. This is the g-spot. It;s not very big so you ned to be prudent when searching for it. It feels spongy and wet, not smooth and slick like the rest of the insides.

When you find this weird feeling spongy part, press it lightly and circle your finger over it slowly. Women like pressure better then a hard flicking of this spot. The gspot is not sensitive like the clitoris so you can feel free to press on it with more force them you would use with the clitoris. The reason that it is so sensitive is that it presses on the bladder which in turn somehow presses on the clitoris. This is like stimulating the clit from the inside.

It can also be compared to stimulating the man’s prostate gland from inside, although his is up the anus and hers is up that vagina, which is a good thing because if the g-spot were in the woman’s anus, you can bet that most women wild allow you to go near it! When enjoying foreplay, g-spot stimulation is really key to a good orgasm. It really gets the woman’s juices flowing.

Another really good suggestion is to use a g-spot vibrator on her as well. This will help her to feel better. You only need to insert it a little way and I would recommend that if you’re going to stimulate her g-sot with a vibrator, please let her position it because without knowing where you are inside, you’ll never hit the little spot inside her. Let her show you where it is or even better yet, stimulate her clit with either your tongue, finger or bullet vibrator and then let her move the vibrator on her own because this way she can please herself inside while you do it outside and you can watch her have a powerful orgasm, sometimes these orgasms are even better then sex.

This is my very first sex tip and although it may not seem like a tip at all, but I have to start off my new blog with this hot sex tip of the morning – have sex in the morning! Normally, we have sex in the evening or at night.

Sex in the morning is not common because we’re usually too groggy, we have to go to work, we have bad morning breath and maybe drool pasted to the side of our faces. As repulsive as these things sound, there is something so erotic about morning sex. Picture this: You wake up next to each other. You gaze into each other’s eyes.

There is something so raw and pure and human about looking at each other in this disheveled state of being. It’s like a romantic connection and even though dirty sex is great, sometime romantic, connective sex is really rewarding too. Chances are he will have a morning stiffy already, step 1 complete. Make sure you have lubricant by your bedside because at this hour in the morning, you won’t have much natural vaginal lubrication and you’ll be too dry. So put some lube on your vagina and then let him roll over you.

You’ll be still sleepy but the gradual feel of a rock hard penis sliding into your extra tight love hole will open you up like a flower in the morning. You’ll gradually enjoy the feel more and more as you soften on the inside and he hardens on the outside! Morning sex does not normally last very long just because the physiological reaction of the male laying down which means there is lots of blood in his penis and therefore, the sensitivity is heightened. He may ejaculate quickly, but it’s not his fault, it’s his body’s fault for being horizontal for the last 8 hours.

Morning sex is a really nice feel because you go from not being dry and your vagina feeling all rigid to a nice gentle massage where it softens and you can feel yourself becoming receptive to his erection. It’s a lovely state of being and you should really try having sex in the morning.